Nicholas “Nick” Joseph Iacano passed away unexpectedly in his home in Mustang, Oklahoma on November 3, 2021 at the age of 33.
Nick was born on February 8, 1988 at Mary Mount Hospital in Garfield Heights, Ohio to Anthony Iacano and Nancy Butwina. He graduated from Nordonia High School in 2006. Nick joined the United States Navy soon after graduating, where he served from December 14, 2006 and was honorably discharged on December 13, 2010. While stationed at Tinker Air Force Base, Nick met Amber Buchanan and they welcomed their son Dominic Joseph Iacano on August 8, 2011. After moving back home to Ohio, Nick eventually relocated back to Oklahoma to be closer to his son. In 2015 Nick accepted a position at Tinker Air Force base as a civilian employee where he worked in Avionics for the B-52 Bombers. In 2016, Nick met the love of his life, Kelsey. After four years of dating, they were married January 18, 2020.
Nick is survived by his son, Dominic Iacano; his wife, Kelsey Iacano; his parents, Nancy (Barry) Butwina and Anthony Iacano; his siblings, Cara Iacano, Renee Iacano, Colton Iacano and two nephews, Nicco and Carmine Germano. He is preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Daniel and Barbara Charney.
A celebration of life is scheduled for November 13, 2021 at 11:00 a.m. at Oak Hills Church in Edmond, Oklahoma. All are welcome to attend and celebrate Nick’s life.
In lieu of flowers, we have set up a trust for Dominic Joseph Iacano. Checks can be made payable to Dominic J Iacano and sent to: Oak Hills Baptist Church at 2720 NW 178th Street, Edmond, Oklahoma 73012
Joey Madden
My good buddy Nick, how you will be missed my friend ! Alot of good memories in the past we shared my friend ❤. Very surreal and can’t believe your gone. But this isn’t the end. Rest easy and watch over your boy🙏. Love you buddy!!
Nancy Butwina
Trying to talk to anyone that worked with my son Nick Iacano. My email is nancybutwina@gmail.com
Melinda Danner
We are truly heartbroken for the loss of Nick and the great man he was. We will lift your family up in prayer during this time.
The J Russell Danner Family.
Karen Vitelli
My sweet, handsome, smart nephew Nick. We had a special bond all the way back when I gave you your first solid food in Myrtle Beach & taught you “Spinning Wheel” on the piano. You were truly like one of my sons & there will always be a hole in my heart for you. You are with Duma & Papa now & you left a special piece of you called Dominic.❤️🥲
Jay Neubert
Love you, Nick. You will be forever be missed and remembered. Gone too soon.
J
Phillip Petruccelli
Nancy and the family of Nicholas.
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the passing of your son, grandson, nephew, and brother Nick.
Keep him in your best memories.
William watson
My condolences to Nick’s family, friends, and all who knew him. We worked together on DHS computer upgrade roll out and from there were became friends. We would reach out to each other a few times year to have dinner and catch up. I remember Dominic and Nick came over once for dinner and we game Dominic some peanut butter crackers and well we found out real quick Dominic was allergic but nothing serious cause we were able to wash his mouth out, but man what scare it was. Nick was very great full that we found this out then instead of later. Even went on double date with Nick and kelsey and me and my wife back in April. We went to dinner then comedy club which I never been to one but anyway I remember Nick saying please let’s not sit in the front but somehow we did. The comedian sure did call him out and cause of Nick’s accent was calling him mafia. We had such good times. I will sure miss you my friend and remember we will meet again.
James Bate
We are so very sorry for your loss, we have had the honor of visiting with Nick for dinner on a couple of occasions and he was a young man thit I respected.
Brett Neubert
A great man and a wonderful father taken too soon. Rest in peace Nick.
Chloe copeland
Nick, I only got to know you for a short amount of time, but even still, you made an impact on my journey. I think of you often and pray for your family🙌🏼❤️
Candy Clark
Rest easy Nick! No more old ladies slowing you down from here (you made me mad, embarrassed and laughing all in a matter of seconds).
Praying Gods comfort surrounds your closest ones beyond their understanding going forward. Too soon young man-to soon!
Aunt Woo
Bev Pether
Sincere condolences from The Pether family.
May you find peace during this very difficult time.
Curtis Cornelius
It was my honor to have known you. As a friend and fellow vet, you will be missed. Prayers for your family.
Brad Neubert
My Cousin Nick will be missed by all who knew and loved him. May his memory live on through his son and his family always.
Brad
Natalie L Brown
I met Nick and his sister Cara back in 1987. Nick was just born. He was very special to me all of his life from then on. I treasure alot of memories with Nick his sister Cara his mom Nancy and duma his grandmother. He will be missed very much and he knew in his heart how treasured he was. Our friendship was a blessing. My deepest sympathy to the family during this difficult time..
Candice E Franklin
I can’t even process that you are gone. You were funny and was a great Father to Dom. Kelsey, Dom, and baby are in our thoughts and prayers.
Robert Stephan Graves
My deepest condolences Nancy. All of your family and friends are in my prayers.
Kip Warnke
Dearest Barry, Nancy, Cara,
Sending our love and prayers – we hope your whole family feels the support we are sending… let us know if we can help with anything… our love, Kip & Vera
Nancy Butwina
Thank you all for your prayers and kind words. My heart is broken and I’m not sure how to live anymore. I still can’t believe it.